Your baby has turned one and is officially a toddler, though if you are like me, you might still refer to them as a baby…for a while longer. They are quickly both demanding independence with crying or hitting over not getting their way while also refusing to leave your side. Maybe they are fighting sleep routines that worked like magic before. Maybe you hit that magic 12 month milestone and wonder why your little one *still* isn’t sleeping through the night. You are feeling tired and want sleep after a year of ups and downs. But google is failing on answers and everyone seems to forget that toddlers, fight sleep and wake too!
Let’s unravel a few toddler sleep mysteries for you by breaking down Toddler Wake Windows and Sleep Schedules, behaviors and naps so you can let out a sigh of relief and get that sense of predictability back. Keep reading to feel validated and empowered and learn how to optimize your toddler’s sleep.
Sleep Cues
You heard of sleepy cues for babies…but what about sleepy cues for toddlers? Well – they have sleepy behavior too. AKA the body language your child uses to communicate with you that they are tired because their brains are still developing and it will be a while before they use language to say -”i’m tired!”.
Toddlers exhibit distinct behaviors when they start feeling tired. Understanding these cues can make a significant difference in ensuring they get the rest they need to thrive. As your toddler grows, their sleep cues evolve into more recognizable behaviors.
- Decreased Activity Levels: Tired toddlers exhibit a noticeable decrease in their usual level of activity. They become less energetic and more subdued.
- Increased Irritability: Fatigue often leads to heightened sensitivity and fussiness in toddlers. They may become more prone to getting upset over minor frustrations.
- Clinginess: When tired, toddlers seek comfort and closeness. They may want to be held or stay close to a trusted caregiver.
- Slower Movements: You may observe that their movements become slower and less coordinated. They may display a lack of enthusiasm in their physical play.
- Loss of Interest in Activities: A tired toddler may lose enthusiasm for toys or games they typically enjoy. They become disengaged or easily distracted.
- Eye-Rubbing and Face-Touching: This classic sign of fatigue is a clear indicator that sleepiness is setting in. Watch for increased instances of eye-rubbing or face-touching.
- Whining or Crying: Tiredness often leads to increased fussiness. Your toddler may express their discomfort through whining or crying.
- Difficulty Concentrating: They may find it harder to focus on tasks or activities, and their attention span may shorten.
- Seeking Comfort Objects: Some toddlers may reach for their favorite blanket, stuffed animal, or pacifier for comfort when they’re tired.
- Yawning and Stretching: Yawning and frequent stretching are common signs that sleepiness is taking hold.
Transitioning from Wake Windows to Structured Sleep Schedules:
Around the toddler years, transitioning from wake windows to structured schedules proves to be immensely beneficial. Schedules offer a reliable framework for the day, providing toddlers with the predictability they thrive on. You might find that wake windows are no longer effective in identifying when it is time for your child to sleep. I typically recommend transitioning to a schedule once your child is on one nap – for most this happened between 12 and 18 months.
Below we will share examples of schedules for 1 – 5 year olds but remember that every child is different and so is their optimal nap and bedtime. To design the right schedule for your individual toddler, make sure to get this www.talkinsleep.com/toddler to get started.
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Mastering the intricacies of toddler sleep patterns is a gratifying journey. It entails recognizing signs of sleepiness, transitioning to structured schedules, and establishing consistent bedtime and naptime routines. By attuning to your toddler’s cues and implementing age-appropriate schedules, you’re furnishing them with the groundwork for enduring sleep habits. Remember, each child is distinct, so make adjustments to these recommendations to suit your toddler’s unique needs. Here’s to blissfully well-rested toddlers!
